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How to Choose a Man

You should accept the first man whom you are attracted to that your mother selects for you.
If your mother is no more then your father's choice.

If you are kind, you will get a kind man.

Before you take your knickers off, you should love a man, unless he gives you appropriate payment.

Once a man has entered you and released semen into you, he is your husband and you should be
with him for life. There is no such thing as divorce.
After this man, if you want another, then it makes no difference whom you choose for adultery.

If your mother or father will not help you, then the following is good for you.

Preliminary remarks:

If you are looking for a secure home and income, you are mistaken. There is no such thing.

From 3 11 2017, there is no long term financial commitment on either side in dating nor in marriage.
There is however a long term sexual commitment to satisfy your man, and he you, if he marries you.
So, if you want marriage, and every man and woman does, you need to take steps to make yourself attractive.
Lose weight, become vegetarian and exercise. If you do not do this then the likelihood is that the man
will sooner or later ditch you for a prettier woman and you will owe him large sums of
money or pain because you did not serve his needs.

Given that sex is the most basic drive in all living beings, it is not surprising that it is the single most important factor in selecting your mate.

In My spreadsheet Price calculator for sexual services

you can find the price for sexual pleasure of the man you are considering.
If his price is less than Rs 300 per hour, it is not worth pursuing him except if you are
prepared to wait and he agrees to take steps to improve, through slimming exercise or becoming vegetarian.

The first time you engage in sexual activity is the best indicator of whether you are suitable for him.

Even if you pass this test, things may not work out between you.

So, you should try and answer the following questions about him to give you a very good idea of whether you should settle with him.

Questions about prospective man (in order of importance):

Answer honestly

Take your time

If you are not sure or do not know, try and find out

1. Very important questions:

Gives me orgasm

He is not on any medication


Makes me happy

Can support me financially

Makes me wet when pleasuring me

Does not get ill

2. Important questions:


I am attracted to him

Firm body

Makes me feel good when with him

Satifies me in bed

Brings joy to my heart when I see him

Prepared to be with me rather than doing lots of things

He is not stressed

Is attracted to me

No other girlfriends

I find him sexy

Does he behave tenderly to me

No physical impairments

Non smoker

Young looking

Willing to do things with me

3. Less important questions:

Looks after me

Own his own property



Wants to be with me, most of the time


Good natured

Hard working






Says what he thinks


Now, the reality is that the majority of men will satisfy almost all the above if given a chance by a woman.

So your real choice is not how to select a man, but whether you want to be good or whether you prefer to be bad.

Choosing good, naturally, good things will happen, choosing bad naturally bad things will happen.

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